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We failed you when Chris Brown received a slap on the wrist for his crime and was subsequently allowed to perform at the 2012 Grammy’s not once but twice. I am sorry our culture has treated women so poorly for so long that suffering abuse to receive celebrity attention seems like a fair and reasonable trade. This is the man he has shown himself to be. He would hardly be concerned with you at all. If you were to “get with” Chris Brown, there’s a good chance he would hurt you and not in a way you would like because time and again he has shown he cannot control his rage. He arouses you to such an extent you are willing to do whatever it takes to be within his incandescent sphere for even a little while.ĭid you read the police report from the infamous incident where Chris Brown beat his then-girlfriend Rihanna? The details are disturbing and graphic and leave the distinct impression that what took place on that night three years ago was not an isolated incident. What I do understand is that Chris Brown means something to you, that he arouses you physically or emotionally. You likely wouldn’t understand who I find attractive, either. I don’t really get it, to be honest, but I don’t need to get it.
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I’ve seen him dance-he can work with choreography. Mostly, to my ears, it’s contrived and overproduced. I have never met him and probably never will. Do you understand? Do you see that distinction? You will never know how good it feels to endure by your choice because that choice does not belong to you and never will. There is only suffering that will begin and end as he sees fit. When you tell a man like Chris Brown, at least the man he has shown himself to be, to stop, he won’t. There is nothing better than knowing you have some control in a situation that feels so far beyond your control. There is nothing better than knowing the suffering can stop, than knowing you must endure but if you no longer wish to do so, you don’t have to because it is safe to withdraw your consent. But, and this is important, when you say, in some form or fashion, stop, the pain or humiliation or domination stops, no questions asked. You can say, “I want you to hurt me,” or “I want you to humiliate me,” or “I want you to dominate me,” and someone else will do so. Ultimately, you are saying you are willing to be abused for the mirage of fame in the desert of your life.įor people who enjoy S/M, there’s this thing called consent, which should always exist in human interactions, but which is exceedingly important when you entrust your body and mind to someone else in such ways. When you look past the image, a celebrity is just a person you know nothing about.
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You are also saying that suffering Chris Brown’s abuse would be a fair exchange for his attention, however fleeting you must know that attention would be. You are impressed by some combination of a young man’s music, charisma, dancing ability, and/or good looks. You are saying you are willing to be abused you are willing to sacrifice your dignity. Clearly, we have different definitions of funny, but perhaps you truly do find it amusing to joke about domestic violence. I want to believe you’re joking, because haha, a man putting his hands on you is so funny in the reality from where you are communicating. Do you know what you’re saying? Do you really?
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INDIGO AVAILABLE EVERYWHERE /xIndigoįell in love with this song when it came out.